Thursday, December 10, 2009

Too Small To Take It All -Part 1



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  1. I just want to encourage you to use this as an opportunity to discuss your values re sexuality with your son and find out how he feels about what he has seen. It is not easy, I know, to actually sit down and have that conversation. As knowledgeable and sophisticated as we are about these things, it is tough when it is our own child. My 15 year old son has not been too interested in porn but I know he talks about these things with his friends. I made it a point to sit down with him and share my perspectives on relationships and what it means to be in a trusting, loving relationship. In other words, what I think would need to be present in his relationship with someone before he is ready for sex. Some examples, could he share his deepest feelings with his partner and have them respected and vice versa, did each of them follow through on their commitments to each other, could they discuss birth control and stds in a open and caring way? I told my son that we needed to discuss these issues now and open up a dialogue because when the time came that he was seriously considering sex with someone, he probably would want his privacy about it. We also talked about the time and energy it takes to have an intimate relationship and the balance of this with other aspects of his life. There is also the issue of peer pressure and how to handle this. I tried to convey the message to my son that I think sex is a good thing and that it is wonderful to enjoy ourselves in this way. Finally, there is such a big difference between porn and real relationships and I think this needs to be addressed. The issue of objectifying women and men is a big one. There is also the issue of the amount of time he is looking at this material and what your limits are about this. This is all probably too much to cover in one sitting with a 13 year old, but just wanted to share my perspective on it. Additionally, does your son have other materials on hand that provide factual information as well as teen perspectives? There are some good books at Codys on this material. Its a big topic, but I really admire you for facing the issue and support your efforts on your son's behalf. By the way, I did take the parenting of teens class with Bonnie Baldwin which she offers periodicly and one of the classes goes into this in more detail. Good luck. C.

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