The way to find out if your son is gay is first to tell him that no matter what his orientation is he's your son, you love him, and that will never change. You may have to repeat that a few times. And you may have to wait months or years for an answer -- and then he may change the answer as he matures further. The fascination with male-on-male gay porn could be just a phase, or a way of dealing with a fantasy that will always be just a fantasy, or a way of processing some experiences you haven't heard about. The cover story about ''lesbian porn'' bothers me a little -- why doesn't he think he can come clean with you? Anyway, you can't dose him with truth serum or waterboard him, so you're just going to have to let him know he's your kid no matter what and see what he's willing to tell you.
By the way, your husband's sexual proclivities and your own are not much of a clue to your son's. Straight people have gay kids, gay people have straight kids, there's no telling. John
The way to find out if your son is gay is first to tell him that no matter what his orientation is he's your son, you love him, and that will never change. You may have to repeat that a few times. And you may have to wait months or years for an answer -- and then he may change the answer as he matures further.
ReplyDeleteThe fascination with male-on-male gay porn could be just a phase, or a way of dealing with a fantasy that will always be just a fantasy, or a way of processing some experiences you haven't heard about. The cover story about ''lesbian porn'' bothers me a little -- why doesn't he think he can come clean with you? Anyway, you can't dose him with truth serum or waterboard him, so you're just going to have to let him know he's your kid no matter what and see what he's willing to tell you.
By the way, your husband's sexual proclivities and your own are not much of a clue to your son's. Straight people have gay kids, gay people have straight kids, there's no telling. John
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